Now I've settled in...
I won't be uploading a photo. Judging by the amount of messages I've gotten already, that'll be a disaster. So imagine a curvy, heavily tattooed (fake) blonde and that'll have to do.
Well I uploaded one because the app yelled at me a lot. I am however wearing a wig and a lot of makeup.
Which brings me to my next point. I won't respond to one word messages generally unless you happen to look like Pete Steele, the goth god of my dreams. Thank the gods for that Playgirl shoot...
I may be inclined to want Dom guys but I'm not a silly giggly girly girl. I'm a doc marten wearing *** of nature who would really, really like to be looked after. Hopefully by someone who understands I haven't had a kink inclined partner in over a decade and I need someone that can tend to me emotionally as well.
I am far too trusting. I'm not sure if it's better to be trusting than eternally suspicious. I did spend the better part of a year believing someone who did not follow through though so more fool me. Which is why I'm a bit stompy.
Discovering some of you get very disarmed by a woman displaying any dominant traits. Proper D/s requires the right headspace for both parties *especially* the D so they don't cause emotional damage. I'm seeing such lack of awareness come through, from messages outright asking for photos or going straight into the gutter. I don't Domme purely because being in that headspace is exhausting and I much rather prefer to explore that side of myself in a different way, if at all.
Women still have it hard enough in life. We shouldn't but we do. It's 2024. Even Dommes will have to fight like fuck to get what is deserved outside of their Domme roles. We're still expected to look pretty, shut up and do what we're told. I think it must be ingrained in 99% of men to start getting antsy when a woman shows a backbone like it's some primal *** we'll run the tribe better, which we probably ***y would.
I once had an invite to *** Garden from a Dom in a fairly large shared friend group. I got nervous and backed out as public spaces were completely new to me. He didn't view me as a person. He didn't even regard me as an acquaintance. He saw no reason why he should respect me the morning after had I gone. He asked on livejournal (it was that long ago) about respecting partners he'd only picked up for events like TG and got his ass handed to him by some of his female friends and a mass downgrade in opinion of him.
Women can be awful too. A jealous woman caused me life changing damage. We can be nasty, spiteful, cruel, and we do our nastiness so much more underhandedly than men.
I don't know where I'm going with this.
Do better.
Looking for a dominant to be my boss. Beard, well groomed and dark good looks are my preference but big brains are the sexiest organ for me.
Online play only.
Just a pretty, curvy brunette with a great sense of humour who is rediscovering herself. I’m very curious little switch who values intelligence and sense of humour.
I am looking for a new play partner, so if you are 30-45 yo and our kinks are aligned, feel free to DM me.
I enjoy being spoiled and worshipped.
I’m married and in open relationship.
You can definitely find me in Klub Verboten every month, don’t be shy and say Hello if you’re there.
I DON’T HAVE *** KINK, IF YOU’RE GOING TO BE RUDE I WILL REPORT AND BLOCK YOU.
IF YOU HAVE A DEGRADING KINK PLEASE MOVE ALONG TO SOMEONE WHOSE INTO IT.
I have been on my own for a little while now, so I am looking to settle down with someone who is in vested in my growth as I will be thiers. I know what I am looking for, and I won't settle for less. I think it's important we have a good connection both mentally and sexually
New to this environment.
Looking to experiment and learn with someone who understands this side of me.
May be hesitant and shy to begin with but looking to gain more body confidence and embrace this side of myself more.
Psych grad that now works in tech. Optimist and lover of adventure and travel. Surviving on good vibes, great food, dancing and the devils herb. New-ish to some parts of kink, looking to broaden my horizons. Main kinky interests include: feederism, dom/sub dynamic, BDSM, group sex/worship. Looking for fun times and new experiences with kind, funny, genuine people. A lot of my attraction towards people is based on connection and trust.
hi, so I'll try and describe me. I'm not good with labels as there are many ways to describe me. I'm a female who only dates women but can still enjoy kink with other genders. I do get distracted by pretty things but can hold a decent conversation if the topic is interesting to me. I love to learn about other people's kinks and interests and will ask many questions to fulfil my curiosity. I've been into bdsm for 15 years and know what I like. I expect respect and always give respect too. I am submissive to masculine people and switch with the fems. don't be afraid to ask me anything just don't ask me to meet u or suck ur cock in the opening conversation also I don't reply if I can't see ur face in ur pic. much love xxxx
just a fyi - i’m currently seriously struggling with my mental health so i’m not very active on here at the moment
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life is a tornado and i’m the cow being spun around for cinematic value. i’m an awkward lil fuck but sometimes i’m funny i suppose
not completely sure what i’m looking for (relationship, D/s relationship wise) as i’m working on myself
mental health fighter, trauma survivor, physical disability, cat lover, cactus mum, book lover, gamer and all-round weirdo
Looking for my Daddy to take me to new heights
Someone to build something real and long term with, building trust together to explore more. Very open minded and kinky.
Come chat and see if we have that connection
Now I've settled in...
I won't be uploading a photo. Judging by the amount of messages I've gotten already, that'll be a disaster. So imagine a curvy, heavily tattooed (fake) blonde and that'll have to do.
Well I uploaded one because the app yelled at me a lot. I am however wearing a wig and a lot of makeup.
Which brings me to my next point. I won't respond to one word messages generally unless you happen to look like Pete Steele, the goth god of my dreams. Thank the gods for that Playgirl shoot...
I may be inclined to want Dom guys but I'm not a silly giggly girly girl. I'm a doc marten wearing *** of nature who would really, really like to be looked after. Hopefully by someone who understands I haven't had a kink inclined partner in over a decade and I need someone that can tend to me emotionally as well.
I am far too trusting. I'm not sure if it's better to be trusting than eternally suspicious. I did spend the better part of a year believing someone who did not follow through though so more fool me. Which is why I'm a bit stompy.
Discovering some of you get very disarmed by a woman displaying any dominant traits. Proper D/s requires the right headspace for both parties *especially* the D so they don't cause emotional damage. I'm seeing such lack of awareness come through, from messages outright asking for photos or going straight into the gutter. I don't Domme purely because being in that headspace is exhausting and I much rather prefer to explore that side of myself in a different way, if at all.
Women still have it hard enough in life. We shouldn't but we do. It's 2024. Even Dommes will have to fight like fuck to get what is deserved outside of their Domme roles. We're still expected to look pretty, shut up and do what we're told. I think it must be ingrained in 99% of men to start getting antsy when a woman shows a backbone like it's some primal *** we'll run the tribe better, which we probably ***y would.
I once had an invite to *** Garden from a Dom in a fairly large shared friend group. I got nervous and backed out as public spaces were completely new to me. He didn't view me as a person. He didn't even regard me as an acquaintance. He saw no reason why he should respect me the morning after had I gone. He asked on livejournal (it was that long ago) about respecting partners he'd only picked up for events like TG and got his ass handed to him by some of his female friends and a mass downgrade in opinion of him.
Women can be awful too. A jealous woman caused me life changing damage. We can be nasty, spiteful, cruel, and we do our nastiness so much more underhandedly than men.
I don't know where I'm going with this.
Do better.
Looking for a dominant to be my boss. Beard, well groomed and dark good looks are my preference but big brains are the sexiest organ for me.
Online play only.
Psych grad that now works in tech. Optimist and lover of adventure and travel. Surviving on good vibes, great food, dancing and the devils herb. New-ish to some parts of kink, looking to broaden my horizons. Main kinky interests include: feederism, dom/sub dynamic, BDSM, group sex/worship. Looking for fun times and new experiences with kind, funny, genuine people. A lot of my attraction towards people is based on connection and trust.
just a fyi - i’m currently seriously struggling with my mental health so i’m not very active on here at the moment
—
life is a tornado and i’m the cow being spun around for cinematic value. i’m an awkward lil fuck but sometimes i’m funny i suppose
not completely sure what i’m looking for (relationship, D/s relationship wise) as i’m working on myself
mental health fighter, trauma survivor, physical disability, cat lover, cactus mum, book lover, gamer and all-round weirdo
Just a pretty, curvy brunette with a great sense of humour who is rediscovering herself. I’m very curious little switch who values intelligence and sense of humour.
I am looking for a new play partner, so if you are 30-45 yo and our kinks are aligned, feel free to DM me.
I enjoy being spoiled and worshipped.
I’m married and in open relationship.
You can definitely find me in Klub Verboten every month, don’t be shy and say Hello if you’re there.
I DON’T HAVE *** KINK, IF YOU’RE GOING TO BE RUDE I WILL REPORT AND BLOCK YOU.
IF YOU HAVE A DEGRADING KINK PLEASE MOVE ALONG TO SOMEONE WHOSE INTO IT.
hi, so I'll try and describe me. I'm not good with labels as there are many ways to describe me. I'm a female who only dates women but can still enjoy kink with other genders. I do get distracted by pretty things but can hold a decent conversation if the topic is interesting to me. I love to learn about other people's kinks and interests and will ask many questions to fulfil my curiosity. I've been into bdsm for 15 years and know what I like. I expect respect and always give respect too. I am submissive to masculine people and switch with the fems. don't be afraid to ask me anything just don't ask me to meet u or suck ur cock in the opening conversation also I don't reply if I can't see ur face in ur pic. much love xxxx
Looking for my Daddy to take me to new heights
Someone to build something real and long term with, building trust together to explore more. Very open minded and kinky.
Come chat and see if we have that connection
New to this environment.
Looking to experiment and learn with someone who understands this side of me.
May be hesitant and shy to begin with but looking to gain more body confidence and embrace this side of myself more.
I have been on my own for a little while now, so I am looking to settle down with someone who is in vested in my growth as I will be thiers. I know what I am looking for, and I won't settle for less. I think it's important we have a good connection both mentally and sexually
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