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An intriguing blend of passion and intellect, I am someone who thrives on adventure and embraces life with an open heart. My interests span from traveling to reading books , I am driven by my goals . I bring a sense of warmth and authenticity to every connection, making every moment memorable and meaningful.
Female (40) Southampton, Hampshire
Hey there Thank you for stopping by my profile. My name is Cherry. i am 34 year old female. Face photos kept private only due to professional boundaries i am happily married. i am not seeking any play partners or play. My only play partner is my husband.
Female (34) Southampton, Hampshire
I am not a Domme plus size single sub not new to kink lifestyle but only been on the public scene for 2 years. not looking for an online long distance relationship. trust, communication and respect are hugely important to me. I am looking for somone who is looking for the possibility of long term, I would like a partner in my further exploration of kink, I have lots of friends I play with but something is missing, I would like to find my Dom and partner. I am not poly. I am not looking for an online relationship, I am looking to meet in person. I am not looking to Domme anyone
Female (32) Southampton, Hampshire
still learning my place in this fun show.......I do get told often that I have a great submissive face for a Switch 😜
Female (36) Southampton, Hampshire
hiya im shaz a pre op trans woman looking to meet new people and see what happens. I'm open to most things off limits are skat, ***, vomit, and men no exceptions
Female (39) Southampton, Hampshire
Hi I’m new here but I’ve always been submissive. I am a mature woman who’s only recently decided to explore/embrace this submissive side that I’ve tried so hard to hide all these years! I’m here to learn and explore before diving in to the BDSM world. Looking for understanding friends to help me in my discoveries! == Results from bdsmtest.org: == 98% Submissive 91% Little 79% Ageplayer 77% Brat 76% Masochist 72% Rope bunny 63% Experimentalist 48% Non-monogamist 48% Voyeur 46% Vanilla 35% Exhibitionist 27% Slave 8% Pet 7% Switch 0% Degradee 0% Primal (Prey)
Female (55) Southampton, Hampshire
Looking for a respectful Dom/s relationship. I am a natural submissive but that doesn't mean I am naive or desperate. I enjoy the power play between Dom/s and the intimacy that the dynamic brings. I expect respect and gentleness outside of play. Whilst I am relatively new to this scene (3 years) I am clear on my wants and desires. If you think being a Dom is just an act of controlling me sexually to fulfill your own needs then you don't understand the dynamic so I would respectfully request you don't contact me. Stay safe everyone x **Desires and Fantasies** Consensual non Consensual play. Bondage, orgasm control, sensory deprivation and who knows where else this could go!
Female (55) Southampton, Hampshire
I don’t rlly come on here anymore sorry 😎😎 in a committed, mono relationship so you are wasting ur time coming in my inbox w ur nonsense !! If you’re looking for strictly platonic friends go ahead n message!! I’d like to attend kink events sometime, I’m particularly interested in getting to know other pet players, esp my fellow puppy girls!!! I’m a big ass nerd, video games, mtg, ttrpgs ect. I’m autistic and have adhd. I love getting a coffee and a little treat. Hmu if you think we’d vibe!
Female (28) Southampton, Hampshire
Been out of the game for a while but am looking refresh and enjoy my kinks. I am bisexual and enjoy being a unicorn, as well as most forms of groups sex and both sides of the power dynamic. Due to my son’s also being in the BDSM community I will not meet anyone under 35. Not sure what else to put as it’s been a while since I wrote one of these but I have an energy limiting disability and am an ambulatory wheelchair user.
Female (50) Southampton, Hampshire
Age: 20 Location: Southampton Role: Brat (with a soft center, sharp tongue, and zero shame) Looking For: A Daddy Dom who isn’t just here to play—but to stay. Let’s get one thing straight: I’m not a good girl… unless I really want to be. And getting me there takes more than rules and rewards. I want a Daddy who sees the brat as part of the package, not a flaw to “fix.” Someone who finds joy in the push-and-pull—who knows that behind every smirk and eye roll is a girl who wants to feel safe enough to surrender. I’m a chaotic mix of boldness and softness. I’ll test you, tease you, and pout when I don’t get my way—but what I’m really asking for is presence. Consistency. Patience. A firm hand, yes, but also a steady heart. I want discipline, affection, and the feeling that someone actually wants to understand me beyond the kink. What I love: Deep conversations that unravel into something raw and real Long walks with music in my ears and daydreams in my head Baking at 2AM because my mind’s too loud to sleep Reading dark, spicy stories with morally grey men (Haunting Adeline is my problematic fave) Solo coffee dates—because being alone doesn’t mean I’m lonely Working on my music—because it’s where I say all the things I can’t explain out loud Emotional growth, even when it’s ugly—because I’ve been made to feel like no one wants a “broken” sub, but I’m learning that my softness is strength And of course… stirring up trouble wherever I go. Chaos? Always. Apologies? Rarely. Regret? Only if you earn it. Important to know: If you want to understand me, listen to my music. That’s where my heart lives. Sometimes I can’t explain how I’m feeling—but I can sing it. If you really want to know me, ask me to make you a song. It’ll say more than words ever could. What I’m looking for: Not just sex. Not just kink. I want a full dynamic. Emotional depth. Power exchange that exists outside the bedroom. I want to feel owned, not just used. Cherished and corrected. A soft place to land after being thoroughly put in my place. If you're calm, communicative, consistent, and know how to take the reins without crushing the spirit you're holding… Then I might just let you tame me. (Maybe.)
Female (19) Southampton, Hampshire
i’m a 22 year old submissive/little mostly based in england! i have a soft spot for older guys! bdsm is an important aspect of my life- the power exchange within a d/s dynamic provides me with the structure i crave. i'm very submissive & love being well behaved and knowing that what i'm doing is pleasing my dom. i hate being bratty- it’s just not for me! also as stated in my limits it’s a hard limit to call me a brat so please be mindful when messaging i would definitely consider myself a masochist, i adore my body being ***ted with bruises and impact play is one of my favourite kinks. i love testing my limits and discovering how much my mind and body is able to handle. as a little, i’m nonsexual my little space is my safe space and my escape! pls don’t sexualise that ! i’d love to find a dom of my own to learn more about who i am as a submissive, and explore my kinks further! although i am looking for my long term Dom (mono), im only willing to consider the perfect match for me. if you think we may get along based on my profile, say hi! (note- i’m not able to do long distance so if you’re thousands of miles away i’m happy to be pals but won’t be a good fit for more). i am very submissive, and a very good girl- however that doesn’t mean i’m submissive for anyone who barks demands at me. submission is earned with respect and trust, messaging me orders or telling me what you want to do to me won’t get you very far. (:
Female (22) Southampton, Hampshire
No ONS, FWB or ENM please. 📚💐⚾🏏🏀🏈 I enjoy the simple things in life, and value my peace. I love to read (may have a minor book obsession), grow my own flowers, and fruits/vegetables, and watch various sports. I'm looking for an experienced Dominant, who wants a monogamous D/s relationship. I don't switch or title stack. I'm 5ft 10 so someone taller is preferable. I don't want to look down on you.
Female (44) Southampton, Hampshire
Raven- bisexual- originally from Liverpool I do have a boyfriend but poly Looking for a cute submissive I'm 5'7 plus size 32… must love the curves full length pic added I am my psychiatrist wet dream 😂 Few disabilities… I will chase you even if I’m in my scooter 😂 420 Party Girl Dark humour Kindhearted Love seeing a smile on someone’s face ⛓️😈PRIMAL DOMME😈⛓️ I am currently in a primal dynamic with others My Alpha/boyfriend,myself as Luna and my boyfriend’s submissive/parter as den mother and we have omegas in the pack too. Make no mistake, if you don’t mix well with the pack it will go no further!⛓️😈 I may have a health problems but trust me they never effect 😏 Alternative Brats To The Front 😏
Female (41) Southampton, Hampshire
Hi, single mum here. Hopefully that doesn’t put too many people off. Two kids. Looking for someone to chat to that I get along with and see what happens. Open to new experiences.
Female (41) Southampton, Hampshire
I like tall and skinny guys. text me if you are submissive and would like a mistress **Desires and Fantasies** bondage, spanking, collar, leash, absolute control
Female (29) Southampton, Hampshire
Your typical neuro spicy, tatted/pierced, nerdy alt type. Sub leaning switch Demisexual and just beginning to explore my bisexuality 😅 Connection and communication are key Hoping to find the perfect woman or couple to help me explore my sexuality 😅 give a newbie a chance? If you’re not into plus size women, you’re in the wrong place 💁🏻‍♀️
Female (33) Southampton, Hampshire
I took a break from this app for a while but decided recently to give it another go. I’m bi and a switch, leaning towards dom but perfectly happy subbing too. I’m kind of picky and i know what I’m looking for - I won’t reply to anyone who doesn’t have pictures on their account,, just personal preference. I prefer having a face in mind when I’m talking to someone. I’m open to pretty much anything - i prefer giving *** than receiving it but other than that my kinks are the same if i’m domming or subbing. send me a message and i’ll go into more detail :) hard limits pretty standard - no bodily fluids other than cum, no needles and nothing illegal
Female (22) Southampton, Hampshire
I'm a dominant leaning gal, here to find those enthusiastically interested in submission. My main interest is pegging and all forms of anal play. Big fan of blindfolds and restraints I love to see a nice red ass so I hope you're keen on some impact play.
Female (26) Southampton, Hampshire
I’ve dipped in and out over the last 10 years dependant on relationships and partners at the time but wanting to explore more. I’ve realised in this last few months I’m completely submissive although a bit of a brat at times and have yet to find something that doesn’t turn me on
Female (26) Southampton, Hampshire
Dungeon Master in the Streets, Brat in the Sheets Bratty sub looking for new experiences with rope and BDSM Nerdy project manager, big fantasy fan. HMU with your fandom of choice! I love anything fantasy, musicals, music, movies, video games and my friends. Talk to me about anything you're passionate about - I love to learn new things!
Female (29) Southampton, Hampshire
i am a very shy persion who has never done this kinda stuff befor, spent a long time being a good girl, now im looking for some spice. cannot bring you home so any games will have to be at your place, willing to try anything new
Female (25) Southampton, Hampshire
like to think I’m funny, caring and kind. at this moment I’m just looking to hang out and have fun. But if I find a connection that would be great!
Female (26) Southampton, Hampshire
hi my name is saf im 20 and will cry if i see a 3 legged *** (THEY ARE JUST LIL BABIES 😭). Im an age regressor due to trauma and want a partner who can cater to it in a non sexual way also pls, if you dont do aftercare i dont do you ;). i am very submissive and am open to trying new things. 🤍🤍
Female (20) Southampton, Hampshire

New members in Southampton

Hi I’m new here but I’ve always been submissive. I am a mature woman who’s only recently decided to explore/embrace this submissive side that I’ve tried so hard to hide all these years! I’m here to learn and explore before diving in to the BDSM world. Looking for understanding friends to help me in my discoveries! == Results from bdsmtest.org: == 98% Submissive 91% Little 79% Ageplayer 77% Brat 76% Masochist 72% Rope bunny 63% Experimentalist 48% Non-monogamist 48% Voyeur 46% Vanilla 35% Exhibitionist 27% Slave 8% Pet 7% Switch 0% Degradee 0% Primal (Prey)
Female (55) Southampton, Hampshire
Been out of the game for a while but am looking refresh and enjoy my kinks. I am bisexual and enjoy being a unicorn, as well as most forms of groups sex and both sides of the power dynamic. Due to my son’s also being in the BDSM community I will not meet anyone under 35. Not sure what else to put as it’s been a while since I wrote one of these but I have an energy limiting disability and am an ambulatory wheelchair user.
Female (50) Southampton, Hampshire
An intriguing blend of passion and intellect, I am someone who thrives on adventure and embraces life with an open heart. My interests span from traveling to reading books , I am driven by my goals . I bring a sense of warmth and authenticity to every connection, making every moment memorable and meaningful.
Female (40) Southampton, Hampshire
hiya im shaz a pre op trans woman looking to meet new people and see what happens. I'm open to most things off limits are skat, ***, vomit, and men no exceptions
Female (39) Southampton, Hampshire
I don’t rlly come on here anymore sorry 😎😎 in a committed, mono relationship so you are wasting ur time coming in my inbox w ur nonsense !! If you’re looking for strictly platonic friends go ahead n message!! I’d like to attend kink events sometime, I’m particularly interested in getting to know other pet players, esp my fellow puppy girls!!! I’m a big ass nerd, video games, mtg, ttrpgs ect. I’m autistic and have adhd. I love getting a coffee and a little treat. Hmu if you think we’d vibe!
Female (28) Southampton, Hampshire
still learning my place in this fun show.......I do get told often that I have a great submissive face for a Switch 😜
Female (36) Southampton, Hampshire
I am not a Domme plus size single sub not new to kink lifestyle but only been on the public scene for 2 years. not looking for an online long distance relationship. trust, communication and respect are hugely important to me. I am looking for somone who is looking for the possibility of long term, I would like a partner in my further exploration of kink, I have lots of friends I play with but something is missing, I would like to find my Dom and partner. I am not poly. I am not looking for an online relationship, I am looking to meet in person. I am not looking to Domme anyone
Female (32) Southampton, Hampshire
Hey there Thank you for stopping by my profile. My name is Cherry. i am 34 year old female. Face photos kept private only due to professional boundaries i am happily married. i am not seeking any play partners or play. My only play partner is my husband.
Female (34) Southampton, Hampshire
Looking for a respectful Dom/s relationship. I am a natural submissive but that doesn't mean I am naive or desperate. I enjoy the power play between Dom/s and the intimacy that the dynamic brings. I expect respect and gentleness outside of play. Whilst I am relatively new to this scene (3 years) I am clear on my wants and desires. If you think being a Dom is just an act of controlling me sexually to fulfill your own needs then you don't understand the dynamic so I would respectfully request you don't contact me. Stay safe everyone x **Desires and Fantasies** Consensual non Consensual play. Bondage, orgasm control, sensory deprivation and who knows where else this could go!
Female (55) Southampton, Hampshire
I’ve dipped in and out over the last 10 years dependant on relationships and partners at the time but wanting to explore more. I’ve realised in this last few months I’m completely submissive although a bit of a brat at times and have yet to find something that doesn’t turn me on
Female (26) Southampton, Hampshire
hi my name is saf im 20 and will cry if i see a 3 legged *** (THEY ARE JUST LIL BABIES 😭). Im an age regressor due to trauma and want a partner who can cater to it in a non sexual way also pls, if you dont do aftercare i dont do you ;). i am very submissive and am open to trying new things. 🤍🤍
Female (20) Southampton, Hampshire
Open to some fun while I find my future husband - no picture because of my job, ask for my socials or to see my private album
Female (22) Southampton, Hampshire
Age: 20 Location: Southampton Role: Brat (with a soft center, sharp tongue, and zero shame) Looking For: A Daddy Dom who isn’t just here to play—but to stay. Let’s get one thing straight: I’m not a good girl… unless I really want to be. And getting me there takes more than rules and rewards. I want a Daddy who sees the brat as part of the package, not a flaw to “fix.” Someone who finds joy in the push-and-pull—who knows that behind every smirk and eye roll is a girl who wants to feel safe enough to surrender. I’m a chaotic mix of boldness and softness. I’ll test you, tease you, and pout when I don’t get my way—but what I’m really asking for is presence. Consistency. Patience. A firm hand, yes, but also a steady heart. I want discipline, affection, and the feeling that someone actually wants to understand me beyond the kink. What I love: Deep conversations that unravel into something raw and real Long walks with music in my ears and daydreams in my head Baking at 2AM because my mind’s too loud to sleep Reading dark, spicy stories with morally grey men (Haunting Adeline is my problematic fave) Solo coffee dates—because being alone doesn’t mean I’m lonely Working on my music—because it’s where I say all the things I can’t explain out loud Emotional growth, even when it’s ugly—because I’ve been made to feel like no one wants a “broken” sub, but I’m learning that my softness is strength And of course… stirring up trouble wherever I go. Chaos? Always. Apologies? Rarely. Regret? Only if you earn it. Important to know: If you want to understand me, listen to my music. That’s where my heart lives. Sometimes I can’t explain how I’m feeling—but I can sing it. If you really want to know me, ask me to make you a song. It’ll say more than words ever could. What I’m looking for: Not just sex. Not just kink. I want a full dynamic. Emotional depth. Power exchange that exists outside the bedroom. I want to feel owned, not just used. Cherished and corrected. A soft place to land after being thoroughly put in my place. If you're calm, communicative, consistent, and know how to take the reins without crushing the spirit you're holding… Then I might just let you tame me. (Maybe.)
Female (19) Southampton, Hampshire
semi new to this, looking for an actual partner not any one night stands so don't ask for anything kind and considerate but can be bratty at times == Results from bdsmtest.org: == 98% Submissive 97% Brat 78% Rope bunny 75% Masochist 62% Primal (Prey) 53% Voyeur 51% Non-monogamist 50% Vanilla 48% Experimentalist 44% Little 37% Degradee
Female (21) Southampton, Hampshire
No ONS, FWB or ENM please. 📚💐⚾🏏🏀🏈 I enjoy the simple things in life, and value my peace. I love to read (may have a minor book obsession), grow my own flowers, and fruits/vegetables, and watch various sports. I'm looking for an experienced Dominant, who wants a monogamous D/s relationship. I don't switch or title stack. I'm 5ft 10 so someone taller is preferable. I don't want to look down on you.
Female (44) Southampton, Hampshire
like to think I’m funny, caring and kind. at this moment I’m just looking to hang out and have fun. But if I find a connection that would be great!
Female (26) Southampton, Hampshire
Your typical neuro spicy, tatted/pierced, nerdy alt type. Sub leaning switch Demisexual and just beginning to explore my bisexuality 😅 Connection and communication are key Hoping to find the perfect woman or couple to help me explore my sexuality 😅 give a newbie a chance? If you’re not into plus size women, you’re in the wrong place 💁🏻‍♀️
Female (33) Southampton, Hampshire
i am a very shy persion who has never done this kinda stuff befor, spent a long time being a good girl, now im looking for some spice. cannot bring you home so any games will have to be at your place, willing to try anything new
Female (25) Southampton, Hampshire
Raven- bisexual- originally from Liverpool I do have a boyfriend but poly Looking for a cute submissive I'm 5'7 plus size 32… must love the curves full length pic added I am my psychiatrist wet dream 😂 Few disabilities… I will chase you even if I’m in my scooter 😂 420 Party Girl Dark humour Kindhearted Love seeing a smile on someone’s face ⛓️😈PRIMAL DOMME😈⛓️ I am currently in a primal dynamic with others My Alpha/boyfriend,myself as Luna and my boyfriend’s submissive/parter as den mother and we have omegas in the pack too. Make no mistake, if you don’t mix well with the pack it will go no further!⛓️😈 I may have a health problems but trust me they never effect 😏 Alternative Brats To The Front 😏
Female (41) Southampton, Hampshire
Hi, single mum here. Hopefully that doesn’t put too many people off. Two kids. Looking for someone to chat to that I get along with and see what happens. Open to new experiences.
Female (41) Southampton, Hampshire
I took a break from this app for a while but decided recently to give it another go. I’m bi and a switch, leaning towards dom but perfectly happy subbing too. I’m kind of picky and i know what I’m looking for - I won’t reply to anyone who doesn’t have pictures on their account,, just personal preference. I prefer having a face in mind when I’m talking to someone. I’m open to pretty much anything - i prefer giving *** than receiving it but other than that my kinks are the same if i’m domming or subbing. send me a message and i’ll go into more detail :) hard limits pretty standard - no bodily fluids other than cum, no needles and nothing illegal
Female (22) Southampton, Hampshire
i’m a 22 year old submissive/little mostly based in england! i have a soft spot for older guys! bdsm is an important aspect of my life- the power exchange within a d/s dynamic provides me with the structure i crave. i'm very submissive & love being well behaved and knowing that what i'm doing is pleasing my dom. i hate being bratty- it’s just not for me! also as stated in my limits it’s a hard limit to call me a brat so please be mindful when messaging i would definitely consider myself a masochist, i adore my body being ***ted with bruises and impact play is one of my favourite kinks. i love testing my limits and discovering how much my mind and body is able to handle. as a little, i’m nonsexual my little space is my safe space and my escape! pls don’t sexualise that ! i’d love to find a dom of my own to learn more about who i am as a submissive, and explore my kinks further! although i am looking for my long term Dom (mono), im only willing to consider the perfect match for me. if you think we may get along based on my profile, say hi! (note- i’m not able to do long distance so if you’re thousands of miles away i’m happy to be pals but won’t be a good fit for more). i am very submissive, and a very good girl- however that doesn’t mean i’m submissive for anyone who barks demands at me. submission is earned with respect and trust, messaging me orders or telling me what you want to do to me won’t get you very far. (:
Female (22) Southampton, Hampshire
I'm a dominant leaning gal, here to find those enthusiastically interested in submission. My main interest is pegging and all forms of anal play. Big fan of blindfolds and restraints I love to see a nice red ass so I hope you're keen on some impact play.
Female (26) Southampton, Hampshire

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