Foremost, I'm a Sigma Female. if you're not familiar, Google is your friend.
Looking for a FLR LTR. Open to friendships from all walks.
I don't want a slave or pet: been there, done that, not enough in it for me. I don't enjoy discipline for the sake of it. I do however expect absolute loyalty and devotion, and the right person will receive the same in return from me.
By nature I am naturally Top, but have no special desire to Domme. I'm kind natured, caring and like to please, but if that is ever misconstrued as an invitation to be Dom'd I WILL destroy you. Do not poke the bear.
I can never be made to follow, don't need others to follow me, don't react well to rules or authority. Nor do I feel the need to have my opinions & beliefs validated by others: I won't waste oxygen in pointless argument. If I don't like it I'll walk away. Brats & drama queens, take note: there will be zero tolerance.
I have dabbled in the fet scene for many years to a greater or lesser degree. These are my people; the respect, unequivocal acceptance and friendliness that comes with the scene are values I hold dear. But as a Sigma and free thinker I struggle with the restrictions of the titular nature of Kink Life. Why box yourself as a Dom or sub? Why is taking the lead labelled as a dominant trait, and receiving a submissive one, when the foundation of all kink is that the sub always has ultimate control? To me it indicates closeted thinking; restrictive towards exploration of new experiences, when all should be considered and perhaps, with consent, indulged and experienced. I guess for the sake of the D/s formats here, gentle domme would probably describe me best. But make no mistake, I fight like a warrior if riled. Don't ever get me pushed that far.
Mutual respect is key. RP, cosplay, CP, sissydom, pet play & the like as a lifestyle hold no interest: maybe it's my offbeat humour but I'd be laughing for the wrong reason. If you want to be a viking sadist or a pet then be one: emote it from within, I'll know. I don't need the AmDram and cheap pound shop costumes to convince me, and it won't turn me on.
If you've made it to the end of my rabble then there are some positives to life with this Sigma:
Heteroflexible, lover of transgressive play and good old fashioned mischief with an equally open minded partner.
Love music (especially indie), sapiosexual, total science and nature geek. Independent, spontaneous, perpetually curious, down to earth and always, always, up for a good laugh, no matter how ***y stupid. Thoroughly determined to grow old disgracefully.