**# Guess who's back** :bite:
profile refresh nov 2024:
A bit about me
ENFP.
Love languages: Touch and words of affirmation (aka praise whore, cuddle slut).
Submissive.
Age preference 35-50
Imagine the sense of humor of a 12-year-old boy meeting the wisdom of a sageβitβs a chaotic cocktail, but it works, mostly. Somehow, I slipped into MENSA, yet I still canβt do my times tables or navigate a spreadsheet, and Iβve never dared to attempt Sudoku.
Iβm equal parts joy, childlike wonder, and deep wisdom. Fierce-hearted and loyal to a fault, Iβll walk through fire for those I love. My determination to see the best in people is both my kryptonite and my superpower. A hopeless romantic, I can fall in love with the idea of falling in love, and Iβm equally at home dancing my legs off at a gig or ugly crying at the beauty of a classical concert.
Iβve poured a lot into my personal growth and thrive around others with a positive growth mindset. Entrepreneurial to the core, I run my own business and have dabbled in starting a multitude of othersβsome wildly successful, others spectacularly not. I also home educate my two *** using a βchild-ledβ approach, which makes our home a happy whirlwind of laughter, curiosity, and spontaneous adventures. My mission is to raise balanced young men with big hearts and free spirits.
Let's Get Down to Business
Sure, this isnβt exactly Tinder, but a girl can dream about finding herself a Dominant, right?
Iβm looking for a hidden gemβa man with depth, emotional maturity, and the ability to truly see me beyond the photo gallery. If you think a gristly, turgid dick pic is going to impress meβ¦ youβre already out. Iβm searching for someone who embodies the core qualities of a true Dominant: courage, leadership, self-awareness, emotional maturity, responsibility, confidence, decisiveness, humility, respect, and great communication. Nobodyβs perfect, but if youβve invested in your personal growth as I have, we might just be on the same wavelength.
Ultimately, Iβm hoping to find someone who can blend D/s with vanillaβa best friend and a lover. Someone who wants to hike mountains, watch sunsets, binge a box set, and share all the beautiful, messy little moments of life as well as get up to some kinky shizz together.
Kink
Iβm relatively new to the scene, but Iβm excited to explore! Hereβs what I know so far:
Iβm giggly and mischievous, but I donβt necessarily resonate with the identity of a brat. I might giggle when Iβm in trouble, or on the spanking bench, or in church, or a myriad of other times one probably shouldnβt. But ultimately, I take pleasure in being good and Iβm an absolute praise slut.
I love power exchange and will follow the right man wherever he wishes to lead. My preference leans toward the sensual: deep, connected intimacy, bondage, teasing, sensory deprivation, and the like. Iβm curious about primal play and Tantra but havenβt ventured into those realms yet. Dressing up? Hell Yes. Roleplay? Probably notβIβd probably get lost in a fit of giggles.
I enjoy being an exhibitionist (within the bounds of consent, of course) and light impact, especially flogging, but Iβm not a masochist. Iβm turned on by someone who understands the mind and its intricacies far more than gadgets like wands or fucking machines. To me, a clitoral orgasm is fast food; I want someone who can take me on a journey to the stars and fuck me all the way into orbit.
Iβm not into ***, ***, or objectification, and I value a partner who shares my respect for boundaries and consent. I want a man who sees me as the prize I amβjust as I will see him.
I do not switch. I wonβt even kill a spider so youβve got no chance of me Domming you. I hesitate to say this but my gut feeling is that the type of Dominant Iβm looking for would never switch either.
A note on limits
Limits are evolving all the time so best to have a discussion about this but if you're heavily into ***, fuck dolls, ***, ***, ***, or anything on the extreme end of bdsm it probably isn't going to be a good match. If you send me photos of your penis I will take that as consent to send it on to my besties to rate it (laugh at it). My preference is for men between the ages of 35-50 and within a reasonable travelling distance of Shropshire so i can actually spend time with him. Finally Iβm monogamous, so straight single guys only please.
May the odds be ever in your favour!