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BDSM and the fetish scene have been a big part of my life for more than a decade. Initially, it was just for fun, but I enjoyed it so much that I ended up doing it professionally - all you have to do is look for Goddess Ruby Rousson. Recently, I've been more into hedonism, playing around with sensations, pleasure, and pain, rather than identifying solely as a Sadistic Domme. Don't get me wrong, I still love my canes, paddles, and floggers, but I have a love for how a few words and a light touch can turn someone into putty in my hands. My kinks vary depending on who I'm playing with and the dynamics we share, and there are more fetishes in my repertoire than what I've listed (I've only included those that sprang to mind first). I’m relatively open-minded when it comes to kinks, and I've encountered a lot of fetishes over the years. Right now, I'm looking for like-minded kinky folks and accessible events. I'm open to finding a play partner, but I'm not actively searching for one; just keeping my eyes open for someone I click with. Outside of kink, I run multiple websites that aim to educate and start conversations, educate myself when curious, enjoy learning new instruments, am a bit of a nerd, and read/write copious amounts of fiction. Goddess Ruby Rousson
Female (30) London, Greater London
Once upon a time there was a girl, innocent by looks, filthy by nature. :kissing_heart: If you are interested in messaging me then please read the below generic responses: "Hey sexy" Hello and goodbye. "How are you?" I'm really good thank you. "Do you want to have some fun?" Only if there is an intense mental connection first. "What are your biggest kinks?" Being controlled inside and outside of the bedroom, restraint, impact play, breath play and extended orgasm denial over days/weeks. "What's your fantasy?" That Wentworth Miller wasn't gay. That guy is hot! If you have further questions past that then do message 9_9
Female (32) Leeds, West Yorkshire
Experienced Lifestyle Domme. Not a sex worker. Not a kink dispenser. Zero tolerance for rude people. No tributes accepted in any capacity. Blonde, blue eyes, pale skin, confident, softly spoken. I get told I am Viking like! Not seeking anything other than friends. I have a sub. Not new to the site or the lifestyle. Please read and respect my hard limits listed below.
Not looking for online play, or long distance. Not looking for a slave either. Strictly sub here..quit trying to make me switch. Don't have snapchat. Don't give my number out. Other than the above, and my limits, I'm an absolute delight ??
I am a submissive female recently become free. Not 100% sure what I want next if I am honest, I think it depends if I feel the right click, after all it is all about chemistry. I have a very open mind about most things and have a lot to learn. The one thing I crave more than anything is discipline without it I get bored and become a brat, when I become a brat I am unhappy.
Apologies, I'm no longer available. INTP My inbox is overflowing with messages, if I haven't replied, contact me again as it's hard to filter through. Looking for a sub partner/pet I can explore domming, I'd like to explore my dominant side with a male/male identifying partner. Potentially involving pegging. Not keen on brats/overall clinginess. Also happy to share sexting moments, and pics. Entertainment with no strings attached. Erotic writing is fun too. I have already found fun subs, you might have to wait your turn.
Female (30) Jersey, Jersey
Mystical pixie person, introverted, quirky, peaceful and creative. Just exploring the site at present, feel free to message if you'd like to chat.
Female (35) Worcester, Worcestershire
I thought that as I got older my libido would diminish, no such luck. I have an insatiable sex drive, coupled with a high pain threshold and desire to please and be pleased by the male and female form.
Female (60) London, Greater London
I'm Cheryl based in London but spend time in the North west (Liverpool) and the Midlands (Birmingham). I have a Dom who is experienced but he is not on here. I'm interested in speaking to other girls. I am sub but like to switch to various roles with other girls. I'm a bbw who is curvy/plus size. We are totally genuine and wish to build a connection and meet in person. Please if your not seriously invested in the life....Pass on by. I'm looking to explore more of my kinky side. I am very very openminded and willing to try anything at least once. I'm very friendly and will respond to all messages whenever i can. X
Female (36) London, Greater London
little, ddlg and other role play, love verbal humiliation and degradation in a sexual context, watersports, choking, slapping, biting, dress up, more to fill in when i can be asked. No whips, canes (done it not a fan). Horse hair floggers are my limit and i love their sensual feel. Not into events, I’m a private player and only want the dynamic if there is emotional connection and bond. Not interested in other play partners, this little doesn’t share.
Female (51) Gillingham, Kent
Just looking for an EQUAL.. NO matter, Submissive /Switch/ Dominant Male or female , just have and original thought!!
Hello and welcome to my little corner of fet :) I'll start by saying that I am a very proud woman with old school traditional values. I pride myself on etiquette, respect and honesty and I expect the same from those close to me. I discovered who and what I am quite late in life but I always knew that I wasn't quite like those around me. However, once realised, a whole new world opened up for me, a world where I found my sense of belonging and confidence in myself. I've made some wonderful friends along the way. Friends who I adore, appreciate, and value spending time with. I enjoy attending events and munches to I love humour and banter and believe that laughter is the best medicine! I always try to see the positives in life. :) Smile and the world smiles with you, as they say. If I can make one person smile, I'm happy with that. I am a strong woman, a mother, a friend, and I am protective of those I care about.
Female (47) Newton Abbot, Devon
curvy dominant female looking for sub male for a relationship who are interested in bdsm, cbt, and humiliation want to date & enjoy kinky fun together **Desires and Fantasies** 2 male subs, 1 naked tied to a chair watching me with the other sub
Female (39) All Cannings, Wiltshire
Hi there I'm Lulu # I'm not looking for a hookup, I will not meet with anyone that my Daddy hasn't approved of **Please do not call me by any honorifics, I have a daddy and I am his baby girl and only HIS** I've been exploring kink for a couple of years and found myself. I am very much a little, while in little space I love colouring, snuggling with my stuffies and Daddy. But I can also be a brat, I love to tease, poke and prod my Dom to get a reaction. Needless to say this does not go unpunished! But hey what's a brat gotta do to get some attention! I've explored the scene in Yorkshire with my loving husband and we've played together and seperatly. We're both into rope and that is our main kink that we have in common as well as him being my one and only Daddy. As for why I'm here, I've had a bit of a rough year fighting depression. So I'm dipping my toe back in and trying to get some new friends, I'm not actively seeking a new play partner. If I were to play with someone I first would need to build trust, I find it better and easier to start out as friends and do vanilla things first and then get to the kink side of things. xoxo
Female (33) Leeds, West Yorkshire
Up for chatting- having some fun- ive had a Dom/sub dynamic before, I've had a little experience with this- not much in person face to face tho more just over messages. I'm down to earth- love having banter with some1- outgoing & adventurous. if I don't message back I'm not being rude I'm just attracted to who I like or makes me want to message them back. my profile says footlover but unfortunately I'm really not into feet like that- just a name gimmick if its not you in your pics don't bother to send me a message feed up of catfishes
Female (35) Redruth, Cornwall
Hey, hey! Welcome to my profile I’m a bratty sub but I can be obedient when I’m in the mood I’m also a little more active on fetlife where I have some spicier pics. it’s the same name x
Female (19) Portsmouth, Hampshire
Hey :) . new to the site, not too kinky fuckery. I'm bratty, princess submissive by nature. who is eager to explore my little/middle side further. I tend to top from the bottom with women. rarely with men. I need trust and communication before heading into play. I love being spanked, flogged etc. More than happy to play as a rope Bunnie. I adored erotic photography and like to model when I can. I'm bi and I'm more into masc women, and trans men. that's not to say you cis males aren't wonderful too! gosh what else to say? I love the 20 questions game! :)
Female (35) Bristol, Gloucestershire
I'm bi open minded to sex I'm little shy and quiet until i get to know someone then I come out my shell just looking to meet people with similar interests I can be quiet dirty and kinky but will also respect others I'm very open mided looking for someone to join me and my partner for fun laughs and giggles weather this is male female or a couple we are both very kinky and open mided but respectful of wishs and boundaries I am in open relationship with a lad to thanks for reading any questions feel free to ask
Female (40) Leadgate, Durham
I will get around to replying to messages, I'm just super busy at the moment, and forget to reply sometimes
Female (18) St Helens, Merseyside
I'm very new to being a soft dom, and the world of kinks, I also came out last year as bi sexual. I recently moved from Somerset to langholm in Scotland with my daughter. And I Decided that if I was going to be starting my life again, I was going to really start my life again.
Redhaired Matriarch & Goddess at The Lair / May-tree & KINK STUDIOS I am in a full time FLR with my owned sub @MM_boytoy …. I also co own my tattooed South Eastern slave @MMtoyMM. And co own @aimee_64 I am a 55 year old sexy, curvy, voluptuous, VERY experienced Sadist, Domme, Mentor, Hotwife & Cougar. I am Matriarch in three FLR households. Soon to be including … KINK STUDIOS. One in Lincoln, The other in Lincolnshire, and finally the Maytree in the South East Been a Sadistic Domme all my adult life I don’t switch so don’t ask me. I still have many aims and ambitions. I am polyamorous, pagan and bi sexual ( not bi curious) like it or hate it it’s me. I love laughter, it’s good food for the soul and making new friends. I consider myself lucky to know some wonderful ladies and friends in the lifestyle they inspire me. I enjoy meeting new people but I am very choosy who I let in. I have some fabulous friendships in this lifestyle…and 25+ years experience but still enjoying exploring within my relationships. I enjoy organizing & attending events when I have time Huntress_UK, Domme Academy & East Mids Caning Court. With my Domme sisters. I do have other interests outside of BDSM life. I was a keen equestrian for many years and still own a little herd. I am animal lover and owner of 3 gorgeous dogs if you don’t like animals I doubt we will get on. These take some looking after so be patient if you message me I am not online 24/7 just as and when. Some other things I enjoy, swimming, walking on a beach or countryside, keen novice photographer, cinema, rock music, Burlesque, cosy nights in or the odd night out. Travelling…..Time in my dungeon/playroom/studio…The Lair Respect is earned in this lifestyle, that works both ways. Trust is the foundation all relationships are built on without it…you have nothing. I believe open, honest communication is just as important if not more so in FLR and D/s relationships. Ms Maree **Desires and Fantasies** Plenty left to dooo try and enjoy….. get to know me you might find out.
New account •Previously known as MDwaifu •Short replies/one word sentences will not get my attention •Profiles with no pictures will get ignored •Be respectful when messaging or I'll ignore you •Don't send unwanted pictures •If you start the message commenting on my body I'll ignore you :relaxed: •I can't travel so you have to be nearby •If you're a switch I'd prefer if you didn't text •Inexperienced so I'd prefer someone who is •PLEASE don't message if you aren't in UK Only looking for irl and long-term If you are curious why I left it was mainly due to religious reasons. Here for good Also on fetlife by the username -FallenAngel- more pics there
Female (18) Glasgow, Scotland
I am a 29 year old woman that's interested in NSA interactions. I'm most definitely a sub and find it exhilarating to be a doms little naughty slave. Of which I like to be punished with belts, all kinds of whips , paddles , canes etc before pleasure , rigging and tieing up are and interest along with dungeon work. I'm new to expressing these desires so I'm looking for experiences. I'm also interested in the neurological side to why I'm into these kinks and think it's healthy to explore and heal some of my traumas through this also I see pain as a challenge. It teaches you to be stronger in everyday life and teaches you limits about yourself and once you can overcome pain. you can pretty much overcome anything. overall once I'm fully confident with my understandings and knowledge of bdsm I was hoping to use this towards helping people with trauma and the pairing of the two. personality wise I like to be kind and caring to people. I have a degree in acting which I'm trying to pursue, I'm a part time ameture comedian and try to be an overall well rounded type of person. I find it very hard to trust people and like with every dating website there's always going to be a scammer or super unusual people of which is why I'm super cautious. I'm also a big lover of truth and being honest. Hard Limits vomit excrement urine hair pulling water sports Needles degrading choking young people 18 to 25 is a no no beastiality scat Fets Spanking Untill bruised and red raw chains , gags ,cuffs ,rope, multi-orgasms , sex toys. Uniforms /costumes. Being a naughty slutty slave , being chained in a cell awaiting punishment.
if you come in my inbox with no manners, you will be expunged!
Female (42) Bristol, City of Bristol

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Mystical pixie person, introverted, quirky, peaceful and creative. Just exploring the site at present, feel free to message if you'd like to chat.
Female (35) Worcester, Worcestershire
Once upon a time there was a girl, innocent by looks, filthy by nature. :kissing_heart: If you are interested in messaging me then please read the below generic responses: "Hey sexy" Hello and goodbye. "How are you?" I'm really good thank you. "Do you want to have some fun?" Only if there is an intense mental connection first. "What are your biggest kinks?" Being controlled inside and outside of the bedroom, restraint, impact play, breath play and extended orgasm denial over days/weeks. "What's your fantasy?" That Wentworth Miller wasn't gay. That guy is hot! If you have further questions past that then do message 9_9
Female (32) Leeds, West Yorkshire
Apologies, I'm no longer available. INTP My inbox is overflowing with messages, if I haven't replied, contact me again as it's hard to filter through. Looking for a sub partner/pet I can explore domming, I'd like to explore my dominant side with a male/male identifying partner. Potentially involving pegging. Not keen on brats/overall clinginess. Also happy to share sexting moments, and pics. Entertainment with no strings attached. Erotic writing is fun too. I have already found fun subs, you might have to wait your turn.
Female (30) Jersey, Jersey
Experienced Lifestyle Domme. Not a sex worker. Not a kink dispenser. Zero tolerance for rude people. No tributes accepted in any capacity. Blonde, blue eyes, pale skin, confident, softly spoken. I get told I am Viking like! Not seeking anything other than friends. I have a sub. Not new to the site or the lifestyle. Please read and respect my hard limits listed below.
I thought that as I got older my libido would diminish, no such luck. I have an insatiable sex drive, coupled with a high pain threshold and desire to please and be pleased by the male and female form.
Female (60) London, Greater London
I am a submissive female recently become free. Not 100% sure what I want next if I am honest, I think it depends if I feel the right click, after all it is all about chemistry. I have a very open mind about most things and have a lot to learn. The one thing I crave more than anything is discipline without it I get bored and become a brat, when I become a brat I am unhappy.
BDSM and the fetish scene have been a big part of my life for more than a decade. Initially, it was just for fun, but I enjoyed it so much that I ended up doing it professionally - all you have to do is look for Goddess Ruby Rousson. Recently, I've been more into hedonism, playing around with sensations, pleasure, and pain, rather than identifying solely as a Sadistic Domme. Don't get me wrong, I still love my canes, paddles, and floggers, but I have a love for how a few words and a light touch can turn someone into putty in my hands. My kinks vary depending on who I'm playing with and the dynamics we share, and there are more fetishes in my repertoire than what I've listed (I've only included those that sprang to mind first). I’m relatively open-minded when it comes to kinks, and I've encountered a lot of fetishes over the years. Right now, I'm looking for like-minded kinky folks and accessible events. I'm open to finding a play partner, but I'm not actively searching for one; just keeping my eyes open for someone I click with. Outside of kink, I run multiple websites that aim to educate and start conversations, educate myself when curious, enjoy learning new instruments, am a bit of a nerd, and read/write copious amounts of fiction. Goddess Ruby Rousson
Female (30) London, Greater London
Not looking for online play, or long distance. Not looking for a slave either. Strictly sub here..quit trying to make me switch. Don't have snapchat. Don't give my number out. Other than the above, and my limits, I'm an absolute delight ??
Me, complicated yet so easy to please ... 24/7 high protocol Service sub, I'm looking for a monogamous 24/7 dynamic with someone I can build a future with. Preferably a sadist as I love the mental as well as physical, I like to earn all of my needs by giving excellent service. I love impact sessions that leave marks, humiliation when done right is exquisite, tease is thigh tremblingly wonderful. If you D for your ego DONT DM me I don't do cyber or pic exchange .. if you think you will impress me with the size of your c**k think again .. Intelligence is a must .. Ignorance is a turn off .. I enjoy all things kinky and also some extreme kink .. Everyday me...I walk with the Morrigan. I have 8 pet spiders and two cats, I am very witchy, how many crystals are too many ?. Downtime... I'm likely to be reading a book, Or playing games on my tablet. I am not interested in t.v soaps, gossip or contouring .. For fun... I enjoy going to see live bands, go to the cinema, eat good food in small hidden eateries. If you read this far I look forward to chatting to you soon. Sorry I don't switch
Hi you can call me Mandy if you like I'm very outgoing I'm single no children. I am a lesbian so men I do prey you can read and not message with all do respect. I would say I'm a passionate lover I like to please making the person feel like she is on a cloud. I do share depending on my mood or if I'm feeling it wilh you or not I love sex more than the average person, if you do want to message please be 25+ I'm into. Feet,rimming,rough, outdoors and possibly more. Thank you for having the time reading this hope we can talk and have fun together.
Female (45) London, Greater London
I am mature and positive woman who wants to be happy. I think that at my age I still can be happy. I am ordinary woman with broken heart - but now I hope I will find the right man who will help me to fix it
Female (35) London, Greater London
Hey! I’m a sub looking for a serious Dom who has experience and knowledge of the BDSM lifestyle. Bonus points if you have experience or are interested in a long term 24/7 TPE dynamic, as I would prefer an arrangement that isn’t just restricted to the bedroom. I like to hand over complete control once a connection is established and the trust has been built. An in person dynamic is preferred but I have done online before and was not against it. I do have a LOT of different kinks and love to try out new ones too as long as they do not breach my limits of course. Happy to accept access to private pictures if requested as they do show my face. :)
Female (24) Eastbourne, East Sussex
Hey, hey! Welcome to my profile I’m a bratty sub but I can be obedient when I’m in the mood I’m also a little more active on fetlife where I have some spicier pics. it’s the same name x
Female (19) Portsmouth, Hampshire
little, ddlg and other role play, love verbal humiliation and degradation in a sexual context, watersports, choking, slapping, biting, dress up, more to fill in when i can be asked. No whips, canes (done it not a fan). Horse hair floggers are my limit and i love their sensual feel. Not into events, I’m a private player and only want the dynamic if there is emotional connection and bond. Not interested in other play partners, this little doesn’t share.
Female (51) Gillingham, Kent
Hi there I'm Lulu # I'm not looking for a hookup, I will not meet with anyone that my Daddy hasn't approved of **Please do not call me by any honorifics, I have a daddy and I am his baby girl and only HIS** I've been exploring kink for a couple of years and found myself. I am very much a little, while in little space I love colouring, snuggling with my stuffies and Daddy. But I can also be a brat, I love to tease, poke and prod my Dom to get a reaction. Needless to say this does not go unpunished! But hey what's a brat gotta do to get some attention! I've explored the scene in Yorkshire with my loving husband and we've played together and seperatly. We're both into rope and that is our main kink that we have in common as well as him being my one and only Daddy. As for why I'm here, I've had a bit of a rough year fighting depression. So I'm dipping my toe back in and trying to get some new friends, I'm not actively seeking a new play partner. If I were to play with someone I first would need to build trust, I find it better and easier to start out as friends and do vanilla things first and then get to the kink side of things. xoxo
Female (33) Leeds, West Yorkshire
I'm a single Mistress and Dominant looking to meet new submissive who are ready to explore their kink side with an experienced Mistress .i enjoy pegging, chastity, bondage, and more
Female (35) London, Greater London
Brat in need of taming. I respond well to a good spanking and even better to humiliation. Deep down I want to be wearing a collar and licking your boots, but it might take me a while...
Trying to get into BDSM, as the rough sex I’ve had hasn’t been rough enough!! Honestly only looking for attractive men, women and enbies- I’m done settling :) I’m a brat so I need someone to put me in my place and make me their bitch
Female (21) Southampton, Hampshire
Looking to explore my dominant side more. I was previously in a mdgl relationship and never got a chance to try out the physical bdsm side of that relationship but love that dynamic of being a dom mommy. So open to learning how to be a better dom and to also find other people in the bdsm Community.
I'm curvy, sexy and looking to embrace my kinky side! Into massage, sauna, kissing. Always interested in trying something new and naughty :lick:
Simple and down to earth lady. Just being in the house for the meantime helping the household chores while waiting to get my professional license for me to be able to apply in some schools to teach.. i love nature...seeing beautiful places is one of the thing i wanted to do when boredom comes. im NBSB
Hi im Koko im a curvy big buster lady in her early 30’s I split my time between London & Sydney (currently London) I’m very open to most kinks but my current favourites are Foot worship, Cuckold & Praise / princess treatment. If you are interested in any of these or anything else I’d love to hear from you.
Female (33) London, Greater London
Welcome to the Haus of Chaos. The Domme: 31F Essex based dominant. Pleasure Domme with a Sadistic streak. The want: Looking for kinky like-minded counterparts to set the world on fire and watch it burn. So - I have an insatiable appetite that many cannot satisfy, so here I am. While I do enjoy a kinky power exchange I also want to explore more NSA meet ups either one on one, threesomes or swinging experiences, with both males and females. I am a demisexual and I do drive so happy to travel. Thankyou for reading and happy hunting ? D
Female (32) Harlow, Essex
I like animals more than people. I have a social battery of approx 40min. I’m looking for a Dom to train me and test my limits.

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