First off, I'm looking for play without the protocol that a full D/s relationship entails (rules, behaviour governing, seeking permission to act, etc.) I want a gentle, loving partner whom I can explore with, and that if feelings happen would take it in stride. I'm currently feeling that if I were to put any labels on myself they would be "switchy-kinda-subby-maybe-little-goddess-as-Domme-Brat"
**Desires and Fantasies**
A little about me: 5ft6, mad blonde curly hair (occasionally dyed copper,) BBW, geeky, book nerd, baker, lover of ***s, Brat with a Switch side. Big fan of watching documentaries, movies, rugby union, and youtube videos. I love travelling and escaping to the countryside for breaks, as well as the odd holiday somewhere hot. I enjoy museums and attractions like zoos, sea life centres, theme parks etc. as well as good conversation over a coffee or glass of red. Anything else, feel free to ask.
I'm looking for a genuine relationship - not just strictly play. Of course I want a healthy play dynamic, and to take it slowly and see how it goes, but I'm ready for that to ultimately turn into a committed monogamous romantic relationship in time (even if it takes months!) If you're not happy to let that develop then don't hurt me by pretending you might.
I'm also looking to learn about the lifestyle and I would like to develop real friendships with fellow kinksters so I can learn more, and expand my connections in the community, so please also feel free to contact me if you'd like to talk. I like a tall & broad "rugby player" build, between 31 - 44 y/o, but I have no strict age limits. I have kik, telegram, and Skype - I don't give my number out until after a first date.
- Other Interests;
Geeky and cute things - anime, MCU, plushies, squishmallows, anything fluffy or glittery
Movies
Reading
Writing
Knitting/crochet/needlecraft
Crafting in general
Research (archives, genealogy, etc)
learning new things
PS4
- Kinks;
Bondage/restraint - rope & steel
Blindfolds/masks - complete blackout/sensory deprivation
ice/fire play
impact/flogging
pinwheels/claws
electrical play
hentai
me leaving tights/stockings on
roleplay (willing to dress up)
physical restraint/control (being pinned or pressed, or lifted, overpowered)
power exchange
Primal play
Getting glamorous for him
Wearing lingerie for him
Orgasm control/***d orgasm
Toys
My Hard Limits currently are:
Hard slapping or hitting - anything causing lasting physical damage
***/Watersports
***play
Pegging
***
Master/slave
