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*My Keywords:*
Trans - Straight Female Identifying - Somewhat Hetero Normative - Busty - BBW - Brassy (brat & sassy) - only child - no kids - grown kid - down with the kids - humour - candour - foodie - music nerd - glasses - American - girlfriend with potential - silly at times - aloof at times - immature at times - knee high socks - love - open - open minded - more than you can handle - even more - gen X - gen Z wannabe
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*Firsties:*
Connection, communication abilities/aptitude and trust are superior. A stimulating D/s relationship is knowing me from the inside out, starting with my psyche. Tapping into my mental vibrations will ensure you get the best from me. My "scene" range is anywhere from sensual & passionate vanilla to rougher/verbal/boundaries pushed. I prefer you be in charge. I will trust that you will know how to handle your/my/our business. In the beginning I like for things to flow naturally & organically - don't come in hot.
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*Immediate Turn Offs:*
If I've said hello and we have been chatting, I DO NOT belong to you. What I am seeking is VERY specific and it's not that simple nor am I that thirsty. Being a Dom shouldn't mean that your "default mode" is "asshole mode." There is a way to be assertive & respectful, if you are an experienced/skilled Dom, you will have the ability to find that balance. Making assumptions and taking certain liberties before agreements/understandings are made will steer me to completely disengage.
Blind incoming cold calls: If we mutually want to have a webcam call, let's set a time. You know, there's nothing wrong with giving a girl a "heads-up." Cold calling typically means you're not respecting my time so you get blocked. Please do not do this.
Oh and my absolute favourite question (NOT!)
"What is your dress size?" This will result in a block - I'm a top heavy curvy BBW with lots of fabulousness. If a "size" is your ultimate concern, we are not a match. I am not defined by a "size" unless we're talking about my personality.
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*Setting Expectations:*
I only do Fet Chat and What's App chat. Those are your choices. I'm not moving to different platforms for onesies and twosies - sorry - no Snappie, no Tellie, don't ask. If you ask, it's clear you haven't read my profile and you may get blocked. If we have connected on What's App, congratulations, we've progressed - but you still don't "own" me. There is more work to be done. Show me you know the difference between there, they're and their as well as your, you're and yours.
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*Wishlist Items:*
A Softer/Passionate/Caring/Daddy/Daddy-Bear/Dad/Dom who freely exercises passion & softness.
Connection/conversations/common interests outside of kink.
A Dom, who's default "everyday mode" is cool/calm/collected/respected.
A long term vision of LTR/monogamy/ownership
(I tend to lean more into a monogamous sitch, but may be open to certain scenarios or "scenes.")
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*Non-Negotiables:*
Being cool with Medicinal 420 - (Google if you don't know)
Excellent body hygiene
RACK/SSC & safe-word usage
Good aftercare skills
Praise, acknowledgement & reward
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*Power Bottom Me:*
I'm selfish with my time, so please make our time together worth while.
I don't want to be in charge, but I DO know what I like and want, for the most part, but totally down for exploring and pushing boundaries.
Not into "costuming" - don't get me wrong, I have a sexy leather corset and a couple paddles/floggers, but I'm not into Latex/PVC or kinks that require a whole "get up." There may be exceptions to this - a man in a work uniform seems to do things to me. I believe that being a D/s, we should know our places without a lot of props or s***ch, that's primal and sexy AF. I'm more stimulated by the things you say and do.
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*Kink Interests:*
Role Play
ANR/ABF
Breeding/Hucow
Breath Play/Choking/Face Slapping
CnC & *** Play/Training/Being Prey
Impact
Trainee
Fisting
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